My Name

I first saw this video in 2019 at a marriage retreat. Once again, I was trying to repair my broken marriage because I believed it was my fault that he was having another affair.

*If only I had been a better wife…a better partner…a better woman…*

I could literally fill in blank after blank because I had been repeatedly told that his choices were somehow my fault.

I will never forget watching this video for the first time as tears streamed down my face. In that moment, I realized that the man sitting beside me was the very person who had made me feel unloved, unworthy, ugly, and never enough.

Those were the names I had been given—but they were never my identity.

Now, I share this video with anyone God places in my path who needs to be reminded that the painful names spoken over them do not define who they are.

Sometimes, we simply need someone to help us hear our New Name.

And perhaps today, God placed this video before you because you need to hear yours. 🩷